I Was A 26 Year Old Blond Bombshell..On The Internet Part 1
(This is the crazy story on how I got involved in Social Media. It is too long to tell in great detail, but here are the key points to the history. If you are totally confused, check out the video below.)
It is true. Are you done laughing? Yes, I a 38 year old married father of 5, used to pretend to be a 26 year old bombshell on the ‘net. Want to know the best part? It worked really well for networking and building my brand. Yep. I would do my social networking under the name: Britney Mason. Here meet Britney-
Britney Mason
Yep, she.. I mean I was a female avatar.
So at this point your totally confused, I know. Let me just tell you the story from the beginning, as I can best recall it.
In August 2005, I was up with my new born twins around 1:00 a.m. Doing my part so my beautiful wife could catch a few winks. I was reading TIME magazine learning about this new virtual world called, Second Life. (I’m not going to get into all the details of SL in this post, you can read more about it here.)
The first thing I was asked to do was pick a last name from a list and create my own first name. As I looked down the list, the only semi-normal last name I could find was, Mason. As for a a first name, I had US magazine next to me with Britney Spears on the cover. At that moment it all came together for me, Im going to pretend to be a girl in SL.
(Weird? Yep! Odd? For sure! Do you want to make all kinds of jokes at my expense right now? Yes, you do. Done? Great)
Now I spent about 3 months in SL trying to figure out what the point was, what I needed to do to have fun, etc, etc. In the end, I got bored. I found really nothing interesting to do there.
Fast Forward to early 2006, I had been listening to Adam Curry’s Daily Source Code podcast since 2005. On one show Adam had mentioned his discovery of Second Life and how he was so excited about this new way to meet and interact with people. He went so far as to invite people to meet him in world, giving out his Avatar name of “Adam Neumann”.
I thought to myself, why not log in and meet Adam Curry. Well that is exactly what I did. Adam quickly responded to me, going so far as to invite me to his home. Over the next few days I would meet Adam “In World” and help him build out his avatar, Curry Castle and share tips and tricks. Now, Adam asked me point blank if I was really a woman. I immediately replied “Yes, of course!”
At the time Adam’s podcast was truly daily, so everyday he would mention something about SL, what we were up doing, who else was in SL. As, we spent more time in SL and he updated listeners on his podcast, something interesting started to happen. A community started to form around us. I would get Instant Messages from people looking for Adam, or just wanting to chat. It was really exciting.
Then Adam approached me about a Second Life deal. What if we partnered up for a “Virtual Business”? A 50-50 deal. He would fund it and I would run it. SL was just starting to grow by leaps and bounds, Real Life companies were starting to come in like Home Depot, Sears, IBM, and others. I was all in!
Now, a few other things were happening at this time. All sorts of Podcasters and also joined SL. They all would hang out at Curry Castle or maybe at a piece of virtual land they purchased nearby. There was Cali Lewis, Anji Bee, The Rumor Girls, among many, many others. They in turn would go and talk about their experiences on their respective podcasts. The number of people joining the community just grew and grew because of this.
Seeing that we needed something more organized, I spoke to Adam, who agreed, it was time to purchase our own virtual island, PodShow Island. Podshow was Adam’s company which would later be called Mevio.
PodShow Island, in my opinion was a success when it launched. The sim was nothing but hustle and bustle. Eventually many of us lost interest and moved on to Twitter. The island closed in March 2008
Yes, I have missed a lot of the details. Think of this as the cliff notes version if you will. So, please do not nit pick. I wanted to give you this history so I can refrence it in future blog posts, when I discuss communities, networking and online branding. Oh, its also fun to go reminisce of where it all started for me!
Oh, so for those of you who are totally confused and wondering what is the point, check out the video below.
I think this video I did for CNBC somes it up really well. Questions? Feel free to ask!
i don't see it as "a lot of us lost interest" as to why the podcasters left SL. I see it as they really didn't get SL for anything more than talking about podcast, which is easier elsewhere. in short, they are like most twitter social media types, it's all metababble instead of just using it for what it's intended for.
i don't miss all those original podcasters.
I remember a few of those details you missed. One was that Adam's Palace had an area for strippers so he wasn't exactly prudish about sex in SL. I'm sure they all said they were women in rl too. And I distinctly remember camming about (moving my camera with the ctrl-alt keys and my mouse) on Podshow Island and catching a glimpse of you with Adam Neumann who was standing butt naked except for a a pair of leather assless chaps. Do you think maybe that might have had a bit of something to do with the "losing interest" and moving on?
Your right, I should of said "podcasters" lost interest. As it did not end up being a good tool for them
SL Old Timer.. you may be right… I think I just got chills.
Funny to watch the CNBC Special Again…even more funny that so much that was discussed has been eliminated from SL.
As one of those podcasters who came in with the herd, I still consider myself an active resident. I continue to use the platform for self promotion in many of my projects, but it's also become a way to spend time with friends who are far away.
Good on you for coming out of the closet – call me when you are ready to go shopping again!
You should of been in the video a lot more! SL has changed a lot!
I think I still have a hash brownie someone gave me at the old Curry Castle
rofl! remmeber the floating leaves from Adam's cigar
Just, heh.
Thanks for that detailed response!
Now, Adam asked me point blank if I was really a woman. I immediately replied “Yes, of course!”
I'm wondering if you felt guilty about that, at the time. Or if you regret that now.
Regret, no. It helped me get where I am today. Adam would not of paid me as much attention if he knew I was a guy. Silly? yes!
I thought the only successful thing about podshow was the Slingo games…and the god awful parties.
Hmmm, okay. So basically your saying if you have to deceive your business partner or provide sexual favors to get ahead that's okay because it gets you what you want. Okay, cool. Just so long as I have it straight now. Thanks.
Rofl
I remember being in the "neverendingchat" at the pickle on Skype when I first heard about SL. Been in it ever since (sure the podcast took a huge hit as did many others). Those of us that stayed and learned to do it right are still in it… and doing just fine. Are you still in SL?? do you go on voice or does that hinder the business.
Really not that active in SL anymore moved on to other things, like consulting to businesses. I dont hide behind Britney anymore. Im just putting it out there and let what happens, happen!
Thanks for that flashback! Ugh!
I'm certain your business clients find your first hand experience invaluable. The cutthroat world of the tarting yourself up and latching on to a C-list celebrity can be very competitive. I know I wasn't the only one who watched Pumpkin and New York throw down on Flavor Of Love and wondered if NY wasn't letting her inner male show through and ruin her chances at success.
Dave I have to ask you a question, which has been burning in my head. Who was he Voice of Britney Mason, as used in the Britney Mason Show etc.
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